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Qu.
I went to a party last night and had a bit too much to drink and had unprotected sex in the heat
of the moment. I'm now really worried, where can I get an HIV test?
Ans.
You can get an HIV test from your local GUM clinic. The test results
will be completely confidential and no one needs to know that you have been. While
there, you can also be tested for any of the other STI's which you may be at risk of
contracting. However, the HIV test detects antibodies to HIV rather than the virus
itself, and these antibodies may take up to three months to appear, so taking an HIV test
immediately would not tell you if you had been recently infected. However you might
like to talk through the issues at your local GUM clinic or contact DHIVERSE for information & support.
Qu.
I know that I should use condoms but I can't really afford to buy them all the
time. Is there anywhere I can get them for free?
Qu.
I have had unprotected sex and have been for a test but have been
told I need to wait 3 months. Can I still pass on HIV if I am infected?
Ans.
Yes, if you are infected you will be at your most infectious as the virus will be rapidly
replicating and you will have a high viral load in your bloodstream. After 3 months, your body
should have begun its immune response to the HIV virus which, although will not kill the virus, lowers the viral
load in your bloodstream by the use of an antibody. It is this antibody that the HIV test is looking for.
Qu.
I slept with a guy I met in a night club, we used a condom but it broke.
I now have swollen glands and feel quite ill, are these symptoms of HIV?
Ans.
There are no specific symptoms of HIV though HIV infection can lead to your glands swelling up.
If you have put yourself at risk, it is well worth thinking about going for a test and even if you do
not think you have, you should have regular check ups if you are sexually active.
Qu.
I am HIV-positive and so is my partner, is it ok to have sex without condoms with positive guys?
Qu.
My boyfriend admitted to me that he had been unfaithful and did not use protection.
We do not use protection either, what do I do?